Thank you for contacting Just Answer. Oh my, I am so very sorry to hear how hurt you must be. How sad. Since they are abiding by what was told to them by their church, there is probably not much you can do. I would suggest that you need to move on and put her behind you. Maybe after some time has passed you can write a letter letting her know that you would respect their wishes and return to what the relationship was before --- non-sexual. If she refuses and if you feel that you cannot deal with the pain by yourself then I would suggest that you see a therapist to move beyond this.
So, as I said:
1) Wait some time and write a letter about resuming a relationship that is not sexual.
If that doesn't work try option no. 2.
2) Seek out a therapist to move beyond this.
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