I am getting rather mixed messages from a girl i like. We have been emailing over the last month and she normally always replys quickly in a friendly kind of way. she will suddenly out of the blue say 'you are distracting me' or sometimes just not email back then email me totally out of the blue about something. I have also sent her a love msg one month ago with a gift and she has not responded or reacted to this. She declines anything i offer to buy her very definitily. She has also declined other offers like buying her coffees etc - however she still calls me and will email freely. I just don't know how to go from this point as i don't know if she is just wanting friendship or a relationship - i would like some advise on how find out if there if there is some interest or not. She is a shy person and i know she would find it very difficult to tell me her real thoughts if there was no interest in marrage. Any thougths on how i should approach her from this point?
When can i expect a response?
These definitely are mixed messages. You can't expect any messages because she only knows what she is feeling. I would end this once and for all by telling her you feel things have changed and if there is anything you can do to change things. You have to ask. Mixed messages are just that but that doesn't mean there is no hope. Tell her that you are having concerns and want to be more than friends. You have to be honest. Otherwise you will continue to be confused. Continuing the charade only keeps you confused. You aren't doing yourself any favors by not being honest or being silent about this. I would consider when she is responding the possibility of having a adequate conversation about this. Eliminate the guess work.
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I do believe that she is totally unable to make up her mind here but really want to express to her my feelings as i do truly love her and care about her. I think underneath she feels the same way. Any suggestions of words or phrases i could use to stir her emotions up to free her spirit? I would like to blow her away with expressing my feelings liberally.