You unfortunately are subject to her feelings about being a couple. This is very common in long distance relationships and with the stressors of Iraq probably more so. It takes hard work and perseverance to have a relationship with a person so far away. If she has not answered any of your efforts then you have to talk away. She has made a decision and you have to respect that by allowing her that decision. If she was changing her mind she probably would have responded. When you accept the fact that it is over you free yourself of the fact that you need closure. She may not need the same. When you accept it you begin the healing process and you allow yourself the ability to move on. It also gives you a chance to free your heart and for someone else to come into it.
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But a person may forget how fast everything and lived on with your life that easy no matter what. I can not understand even if we were good at the beginning of August and said I wanted a month now and just wants me as a friend. We had a family relationship of commitment where our families knew of our plans. In truth I do not understand.