You have to decide what you want and why. If he wants his freedom you have no choices. You have to respond to whether he wants this relationship. You can offer to go to counseling together. He may be open to salvaging such a lengthy relationship. If not then you do deserve to know the reasons for his decision. You can engage him in helping you become independent again since you have been married for so long.
The reason is important but so is your ability to be independent. Make plans so that you can make this transition easier. If his reasons are trivial then maybe you can address these in marriage counseling. Approach him in finding a solution that is less permanent such as couples counseling. Work on this together
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So he will be free after he took me away from my familly and bring my children over and just drop the whole familly thats not fair to me i just started working and he is enjoying his life and i who is always a good and honest woman never cheat on his must just except it because he is not the strong one any more, the Bible teatch us you can not divorce the one from your young age.
can i ask for money because i lose my dignity and myself and he braught all the children over to australia - they left every thing behind to be with us and now he wants to go on with his live and leave all the children with me, in his opinion the children will look after me and he promised he will always looked after me. His familly is first in row for money but when I needs something there is always questions why and for what. Can I take every thing because how I see everything he is the onw who is going around with othe women.
I still love him that is the baddest thing and he was always the boss in the house and I was the women with nothing and when we married he was staying with his mother/father and I was the one with every thing. At the end off the month when its was payday ir was ok.