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My girlfriend of over 20yrs. is sending messages to a guy she

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My girlfriend of over 20yrs. is sending messages to a guy she hasnt seen in 35yrs saying I ADMIRE YOU SO DEEPLY AND IF I WERE SINGLE YOU WOULD HAVE TO HIDE HA HA AND FOR HIS BIRTHDAY SHE SENT HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MY SWEETHEART! WHAT IS UP WITH THAT?
The problem with this whole scenario is that you and her are just friends too. Nobody has a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship for 20 years. There is no commitment between you two. Meaning, no marriage vows saying you two are committed. SO basically, she can do what she wants with whoever she wants without you having a say in the matter. Same goes for you.
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