Letters are fine and they help you organize your thoughts. It is not as good as face to face but there is nothing wrong with a letter. You can pour your heart into a letter and allow this to help you get your thoughts aross to him without your feeling embarrassed. Use this effectively though by putting all your thoughts on paper. Don't be scared about how he is going to take it. Tell him you feel unloved. Include what you would like to see changed. It is curiour that he would ask you to leave like that. If you enjoy spendign the night tell him so. You have to talk about things like this as a couple and not hold back.
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