Its nice to hear that its ok that I have protective walls. There's a fairly large amount of people that I know that I have seen forgive, or give second chances to people who have done them wrong, makes me feel like I'm in a world of my own. I think about why I'm so much more protective of my heart? My father did betray my trust as a child when he left my mom, brothers and I for a woman who was close to the family. My brothers don't seem to have such strong protective walls as I do though. Wondering why we differ.