even if he says he has fallen out of love with me?
i also said a lot of mean things to him and was trying to push him away.. its not just the sleeping with someone eles. i put him down only because i was so upset with myself. its the things ive said.. but he's told me to move on and find someone else and do what makes me happy.. i dont know if he actually wants me to find someone else or not.. he stated he is basically over me for the most part but will always care.
yeah you're right.. i'm just worried that he will find another girlfriend.. he told me it is a possibility, just not at the time being.
do you think he'll end up missing me and come back eventually? even if it takes a while.
if i give him enough space and stop contacting him,
if he was completely done with me, wouldn't he say so? would he act differently than he is now.
i told him i would wait for him and we were going to see how things went after a while after giving eachother space. but we got into arguments and i got jealous if he was with a girl, so i think it changed his outlook. but i feel if i give him the space he needs then he will see it differently. he changes his mind a lot. its how he is.
but he didnt guarantee he would try giving us a shot again.
so in all honesty, do u see hope in the future? does it not appear like its done for good to you?
i just need constant assurance.. no matter what people say to me.
the hard part is the fact i'm going away to school in 2 months. its not that far, but it isnt helpful
how should i act if i want to attract him back? indepdent and happy? the last thing i said to him was over a test message this morning and i told him i wasnt depressed that we cant be together and i was happy and made peace with it and have accepted it and that whatever happens is for the best.
he also did not respond to that text message.
we had a talk yesterday and we ended it by hugging and he told me he wanted me to know he really did love me a lot. i basically did say everything u stated to him just not all at once so i hope he realizes that. and by not contacting him, that is respecting his space.
i just hope he realizes.
i feel he will miss me if i dont contact him for a while. hes used to be makng contact for over a month now.
do you think he will try talking to another girl and dating her before reconciling with me?
he told me that he didnt go after girls when we broke up like most guys do to get over a girl.. he basically just doesnt want a girlfriend.. i told him it would hurt me if he found someone else without trying with me and i told him i leave august 20th if he wants to see or talk to me.. so he knows. i wonder if he will contact me before i leave...
you dont think he will initiate contact in 2 months?
okay. so should i try to act happy and independent and not upset?
okay. thank you so much for your time! you really helped.