I am sorry for the delay I could not get online. NO girl should want to be controlled. This is unacceptable and an indicator that this is not a healthy relationship. I can't say when you lose patience it's time to quit, but I can say that when you are scared or he is being controlled it is time to quit. No girl should tolerate either one of these situations. Feeling smothered is a sign that the relationship is unhealthy and that there is not a firm basis to have a long term relationship. Gifts don't compensate you for a healthy relationship based on compatibility and emotional satisfaction. Instead of taking gifts look for a guy who can be kind without making you feel that he has to buy your love.
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