If you are comfortable having these problems for the rest of your time together then go ahead and reunite. He has told you verbally and emotionally that he is overinvolved with his wife and that isn't going to change. I don't know of any woman who would want that situation and you shouldn't want it either. In addition, he does not require that his daughter respects you and he is "rude". I don't see any qualities that would promise a long and happy future. I think instead you are concerned that you wasn't several years with this guy and you really want the promise of a good relationship. He is not it. Think of it this way: If you reunite with him, then you will waste more time than you could have spent with someone who is kind and considerate. Also you will not look for a healthy relationship if you are tied up with him. Move on and find someone that deserves you.
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