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Are you unhappy because you are feeling you are doing most of the "work" in the relationship? Have you ever considered therapy for the two of you?
I have considered it but it never seemed like the right thing and money is tight as it is
If you can't imagine your life without him then I would suggest counseling. It is a good way to discuss your problems without fighting and you will both learn how to communicate and listen to one another so that you can avoid the fights and find solutions. It will not be a forever commitment, a few sessions would be well worth your investment.
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If he is depressed he isn't capable of showing much of anything, is he just in counseling or is he on medication? also,
Just counselling and that has only just started
he may need medication as well as counseling.
wait a bit and see how he responds to his counseling and couples counseling. If his therapist feels the need for medication he/she will tell him.
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