Thank you for your reply and very spot on! I have since apologised but his behaviour refusing to meet and talk made me so angry and made the situation worse. I said many things in anger I regretted. I also pursued him to make him talk tried to force him but this made things worse.
He told me that they were just friends and I had nothing to worry about (by text message) but he refused to meet me because he said I had to calm down.
I'm still worried about what that woman said why was she so interested in if I had a relationship with him but she never said she was his girlfriend. Also there were many other photos of them out together and because he never invited me out this made me insecure.
He still refuses to talk I haven't heard from him in a couple of weeks and contacted him a week ago. Should I continue to ignore him or try again to talk with him.
Yes he is flirtatious and a bit sleazy that drives me mad and is very disrespectful. I guess he is very insecure underneath. His mother died when he was 13 he seems very together and is very successful in business but underneath.... He likes the attention but I'm not sure how far he would go. He is 38 years old and as far as I know he has never had a relationship over a year long. Perhaps the death of his Mother has a lot to do with his avoidance of emotion.
Anyway I'm not going to contact him again thanks so much.