Those things are great but you need to consider a couples counselor that has training in gay and lesbian issues. You could get so much benefit from that and you would not be guessing. One thing that stood out that bothered me was that she is still on her Facebook. Why is that? If it's over it's over? They don't need to be speaking. The other part is that she seems to change her mind a lot about her feelings. If you are in love that is what you are. You don't need to figure it out constantly. I would be under normal circumstances be skeptical. With big move I would be nervous. Confront her on this and see what she says. don't move if you aren't fairly sure that it will work.
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