This is a difficult choice to me. Unfortunately because he has put his foot down there is only so much to do. I would however stress the trust issue and over time he may realize he is being unreasonable. You can also allow them to spend more time together he may grow to realize that he is being silly. This approaches the problem reasonably without him getting angry. You may also if you want to do so make plans with girlfriends before he leaves so you are not home alone. Find out if he is open to your going out with males like the movies but not alone.