But what about these "tidbits" of memory, or fantasy, or whatever you call it, that may point in the direction of guilt? My peers tell me I was OK, but if I had "snuck away" it is possible that nobody would have known about it other than me and the other guilty party. I know I would never do anything to harm my girlfriend at this point, but early in the relationship and under the heavy influence of alcohol, I just cant be SURE. Do I tell myself I did not do anything? Or do I just accept that I may never know the real truth, and realize that even if I DID do something, that information would only hurt my girlfriend more than help?
Thank you so much for your help. Can I just finally confirm that none of this (even my original question) will be posted on the main page? I don't want this available to the main public.