The key is to find out why you do not desire intimacy. It may be something deeper than just the sex itself. Look at your background first. Then look at the relationship for anything that might be lacking. This is the key to resolving this. Pills and other remedies will not help if there are intimacy issues. Those are superficial remedies to a difficult problem. Find out why you feel this way and work on the issues resulting in this problem. Do you feel unappreciated for instance. This can often prevent women from feeling sexual. If you are having difficulty finding a reason, see a counselor. The counselor may be able to isolate the difference. Or go to a therapist that can address you as a couple. This may not be a issue of sex drive and more a manifestation of another issue.
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