You have to move away from emotional discussions and start small. Slowly show him that you don't overreact. Once you have consistently responded to his issue in a calm fashion then he will begin to see that you are really trying. Communication is a skill that each couple has to work on. The best reference for good communication is the Mars and Venus series. Learn ways to communicate emotional issues in way that brings resolution. He will then share more intimate details about what he is feeling He will need avoidance less ad you will grow as a couple. Try to exercise your best judgment in resolving what is bothering him. Reassure him that you are willing to listen and have his best interest at heart. Be patient and see what happens.
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