I don't think the feelings are not solid. The feelings are solid. His receptiveness to them is not solid. You really need to find out where you stand before you waste anymore time. he may just have difficulty expressing himself, or he isn't in a place to be in a relationship or he may just be struggling with a long term relationship. You have to find out what he's thinking because it determines the direction of the relationship. Don't hint around. Ask what you want to know so that you know where its headed. Then you can decide if the relationship is worth saving. A long distance relationship is difficult so explore if this is going in the right direction. Learn to ask questions directly. Otherwise you are engaging in a guessing game.
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