I guess in this part of the relationship where we are learning conflict resolution that works for us, and also because we're subconsciously probably trying to turn the other person into what we want them to be, I wasn't sure what to make of this. I would always ask 'ok, so if I did this, what else is he going to ask me to do?'
I guess the halfway point is to go with him to purchase these things instead of making me do all the leg work for something I'm not completely interested in?
Thanks for clarifying that for me. I haven't been in great relationships in the past as my boyfriends were demanding then would take me for granted. I feared that this might happen with this one. I know the whole wig situation sounds silly, but with all the subconscious changes he's wanted me to make recently, I've been getting rather resistant.
I do appreciate your insights very much, and thanks again for your help!
All the best to you.