He does some school runs, a bit of DIY, keeps the IT going, puts out bins, cooks a lot, cleans sometimes, shares holiday childcare. Encourages homework.
He's self employed and his business has lost money for the last 4 years, but instead of getting a second job he ran up debts. He's put between 5-10% contribution to the family running costs in recent years. I dont know if he has funds outside of the family accounts, he says not,But i've seen letters about premium bonds.
Oh, one last thing, he is truely devoted to the kids emotionally. A fall on his sword kind of guy. Hero in a crisis, but not (apparently) a steady provider, emotionally or financially. It's tragic really, as underneath all our issues, he is a completely decent loving and devoted man. It's just a mess.
To be honest Im not comfortble posting any more specifics on here. I hope that's eough to give you the picture.