I ignored it because I didn't understand how she could feel unhappy. Our relationship had reached a new high and I was as happy as I have ever been and I had assumed she was too. She told me that even before she approached me about her unhappiness that she had already made up her mind to end it. She claims that she felt she had to sacrifice being herself to make me happy and that she felt I could never accept who she truly was because it will make me unhappy. I told her don't make that decision for me and to let me decide that I can truly accept her (and I do!). She also is dealing with a lot of family issues right now that I feel have contributed to it as well. We've gone to lunch since the breakup and like I stated before she treated me just like a random dude. I even noticed that she took off the lockett I bought her for Christmas (something she used to wear 24/7). After we left I texted her that I loved her in which she replied "ok" instead of the normal "I love you more". From the conversations we've had it seems like she still loves me but isn't IN LOVE with me. If this is true how can I convince her to fall IN LOVE with me again?
She said she feels like she had to sacrifice being herself to make you happy, she feels you didn't accept her for who she is. Why would she feel like that? One thing that you should of said was that you love her for her and you never wanted her to change because you fell in love with her, for her. She is hurt still by what she is saying and is working it out by going to lunch with you. You mentioned family issues she is having. This could be some thing that is affect her. Some times you push away the person you love the most when things you have no control over are going on in your life. People push people away hoping they understand, but it ends up looking like they don't care. Since she is going through a tough time I would be there for her. Let her know that you are there for her her and she can count on you to listen and support her. She took off the locket because it could be making her sad to look at it because she is hurt inside with everything she is going through. I think it is important to explain too her that you accept her for who she is and that's why you fell in love with her.