Anything that can make you unhappy. Divorce is a personal decision, but make sure the reason is significant enough that it can't be resolved in counseling. Present this issue in counseling and see if a compromise can be decided upon. I know there is no 1/2 baby but maybe waiting a year or some other measure where you both would be happy. if this is so significant that you will not be happy with one child then you can examine your options. But only if remaining married with 1 child is intolerable.
It seems more fitting to try to work this issue out in counseling. There seems to be other issues. Trust is a huge problem and this also needs to be resolved since splitting up would effect the entire family. You shouldn't consider getting pregnant when things are not stable. You can explore the issue around your father's death as well. Resentment can build up over time and cause distress between partners. Resolve why you feel disappointed
I have forgiven him for not being there when my dad passed so that is, thankfully, being us. I do not want to have a baby now....I would never bring a baby into anything but a happy home. The problem is he is so adamant about not having another baby ever. Waiting a year won't change anything. This is why I need to know if I should someone just get over the fact that I'll never experience creating life again and hope that I fall back in love so much that it won't even matter or just end it now. I'm 32 and do not want to be pregnant at 40. I hope this makes sense.