I don't think he wants to do long distance but then, i don't want to just be used as a friedn with fringe benefits either. he was here this weekend and we had a great time. but he never mentions getting togheter again. but he e-mails me first thing in the morning, when he lands, all during hte day. He fixed things around my house when he was here (which he did not have to do). I think he totally expects me to start dating someone soon. But, then he asks me to not forget about him. And that he could stay in touch in touch with me "forever". Does a man say this to a woman if he's only interested in sex? Does he do these things if he's only interested in sex? he is in the military and will likely get transferred in 18 months to someplace else. it's like he knows this can't work but doesn't want to lose contact with me.
I just k now that I can't stop thinking about him no matter how hard I try. He even joked around that we are like "harry and sally". HA!!
Well, I have encouraged him to date as well. I just figured that since we are not dating and he lives so far away, taht he should go out on a date too. he knows that I have. And, he's admitted to being jealous. But, he knows he's not here and that it is inevitable that we will both, at some point, date someone.
I guess i don't really know what my question is. I just wish it were more but I realize it can't be. Maybe it won't ever be. But, he is hte first person I think about in the AM and the last one I think about at night. It's hard to be just friends but it about all we can be at this point.
I guess my question is: is this heatlhy or not? should I just cut ties altogehter or keep it as is? Does a realtionship like this ever work out?
i think I am more attached than he is. I wish we could just be friends or be more but not both. I should probably just cut ties with him.
i just don't see it working out.
thanks for hte feedback.