It sounds like the two of you have different goals. You wanting intimacy and him pulling away. The only way to resolve this is to come together and talk about what you both want. I know you said you have talked, but there is no other way. If you love him you can only try to find a way to discuss the future of this relationship. If he is offering money, then you have a chance to see him although briefly. Use that time to have a discussion about the relationship and if there is one. If it turns out that there is no relationship anymore, then you have to separate from taking this money. By taking the money, you are saying that the relationship is only about money. Find a way to connect on an emotional level instead. You have to pursue a discussion that clarifies this situation. Tell him how you feel and see what happens.
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