Hello and thanks for using Justanswer.com! I'm sorry to hear the relationship didn't move in the direction you were hoping. It sounds as though he began withdrawing on his visit and continued to do so once he was home. At the end of the day, why would you want someone who doesn't want you back? You deserve someone who showers you with the kind of attention throughout the relationship without you feeling at all as if you're calling or texting too much. He should want to hear form you and call without your prompting him to call you. The upside is that we learn from every relationship. Consider what it is you enjoyed about your time together, the qualities he had to offer, and how that might impact you look for in future relationships. As for your friendship with this man, the fact that he's kept you on Facebook does show he has enough respect for you not to cut you off entirely. I would avoid calling / texting to put some space between you for a while -- enough to tell him that you understand he's not interested in a relationship and that you're OK with that. You could then send a simple note through Facebook that just says, "Hello! Hope you're doing well!" If he doesn't respond to that, you'll know he's not really interested in a friendship either. I wish you the best of luck!