To find a therapist not covered by insurance, you may want to phone the United Way toll free #211 and ask for the community mental health centers in your area. They serve individuals w/o commercial insurance. There is also free online support groups.
Another option would be to see counselors affiliated with churches as they may have a sliding scale.
Hi JA Customer and since Dr. Rossi has opted out of your question, I would like to recommend a therapist who practices in San Fransisco Bay area.
Dr. Seth Prosterman has a great reputation and has been practicing for over 25 years. His specialty is relationships and you can reach him at his office. The phone number for Dr. Prosterman is(NNN) NNN-NNNN
I hope this helps and very best wishes to you.