Do you live close to each other and will she be willing to meet w. you?
Thank you for clarifying.
It would be preferable to talk to her in person. She already knows where you stand in this based on the messages you've shared with her. She would need to see some changes in your behavior if she is ever to reconsider getting back together.
When you see her in person, ask her what are some of the things she would like to have in a relationship. Together, go over the factors that led to the drifting apart in the relationship after you were released from prison. If there were things you were responsible for, let her know you accept those mistakes.
All relationships have some ups and downs. What makes some relationships last is the ability of each partner to work on those issues. It is possible that you've grown apart because the two of you had changed in some ways. If one person is not ready or willing to deal with the others changes, that may cause friction.
Hold onto sending flowers and try to focus on open communication w her and best to be done in person. You could write down some of the things you want to talk about and also ask her to do the same so the time you see each other is utilized appropriately.
She may be cautious now and not wanting to get hurt or disappointed and may seem distant emotionally because of that. Give her some time to deal with her feelings.
As i said before, we were to get married, it was initially spoke about when I was in prison in france! But then i was extradited back to the UK not Knowing what i was going to be facing. I was sentenced back in March of this year and my probation period ends on xmas eve this year. My main cocentration was to put all the bad behind us, to then open a new and happier door and then do the proposal etc etc. I really have been an idiot, she stuck by me all through this, both financially and emotionally. I have the utmost respect and loyalty towards her and would just like to be able to show her all of this and a whole lot more and make her the happiest woman ever!