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Hi, She stepped over her boundaries however I get the impression that this is something she feels she has a right to do. She doesn't. You yelled because that was the only way to get her attention and listen. Unfortunate. When things quiet down over this you might want to sit and have a "chat" with her. Tell her there will be no more arguing over what she thinks you should do. Tell her you are 46 years old and able to run your own life and that the next time she starts telling you what to do you will not even respond to her. You will only speak to her when things are calm. Yelling for the most part solves nothing, just makes you more angry. Refuse to engage in it. Answer her once if she has a question or comment and then that is it. If she continues to "peck" at you simply say stop and then ignore.
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