If he is emotionally distant, and his queues to you are such to make you think that he is not going to be remorseful or even explain his side of the situation, then it would be healthier for you not to seek him out.
You've mentioned that the connection feels different now.
What do you want to happen?
So he is scheduled to come to Atlanta on Tuesday for work and will be staying with me for two days.....yikes! I'm nervous.
We didn't talk all weekend but he called tonight. It was pleasant but he's sick and sounded tired. I don't plan on bringing the incident up but things feel weird. Suggestions?