Hi and welcome, when you first fell in love with this man you fell in love with him, not what has or doesn't have. At that time he was the courage you needed to get out of your unhappy marriage. You have to decide, without the input from your family and friends, what is important to you in a relationship. If you enjoy each other and can see yourself growing with him, that means aiming towards the same life goals, being there for each other and not basing your feeling on what material things he or you have, then that is love. It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks of him, it's what you think. You can't help who you fall in love with, what sustains a relationship is good communication skills and a genuine feeling of "liking" this person. That is what love is all about. Listen to what your gut is telling you, sounds like love to me.
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