So your telling me the letter I wrote wasnt trying? Did you honestly read it. It was very positive.I dont want any more rejection if he ignores my call. I am hurting enough now. My question was can he really just shut down in three days after coming down from Florida ( I live in New Mexico ) I didnt ask him to come he asked me. It was so nice . I am afraid to call him dont want to pressure nor want him feel I am trying to control. I long do I wait ....It is harder every day to be strong when you told me I should call I almost did, Friends family that met him said wait for him to need or call you.