She may be cautions hence, the hesitation in following up with the meeting.
She may also not know what she wants. Having a cyber/long distance relationship is safer than making a commitment to be with someone.
You would want to know what her motivation for seeking to connect with others online is. Try to converse on Skype and then see how things go. The phone is always safer communication tool.
You would not be the one helping her figure out what she wants. You are just trying to see where things are going.