Thanks for your response. Your response was more focused on his relationship with his stepdaughter. What about him still paying her car note and insurance?
There was one instance when we had a date and he texted me to say he would be late because his ex called and asked him to pick up his stepdaughter at school because she was stuck in traffic and would not get to her on time. His text started off by saying "before you go crazy....." I thought he could have called to discuss it with me first then call her back to say yes or no. He thinks I was unreasonable. He thinks I should trust his judgment that he will do the right thing. Am I being unreasonable? I want you to be totally honest with me. I want our relationship to work and if I am unreasonable, I want to know.