We are on a second marriage. He has a son 15 and I have a son 21 living in our family home. We have given our son's chores cutting lawn snow blowing the driveway keeping there rooms tidy and clean and they each have threre own bathroom to clean. My son does his share of the chores but I have to tell his son everytime to go out and do his share of the lawn mowing, snowblowing, his room and to clean his bathroom. This has been going on for 4 years now. His son gets home from school on weekdays at 4 gets on the computer gaming till 10:30 and on weekends he is on the computer from 10:00 in the morning till midnite. I tried to talk to my husband telling him this was not normal to have a 15 year old being on the computer pretty much 24/7. My husband got mad at me said I am always picking on his son but I only ask him to do the chores he was asked to do and I told my husband that I would of never allowed my son to be on the computer for hours on end. Is being on a computer for roughly 61 hours per week gaming normal or how should I handle this situation if it in not normal?