The break up was cowardly done over the phone. I do not have closure. He is not a bad person but knows I am upset and hurt. I still have strong feelings for him, but will not reach out after he said: "I don't want to be in a relationship." He also said he cared about me and had feelings but did not know what he wanted and was extremely hard for him to break up. To add to the confusion, his ex wife had been calling him for several weeks saying she wanted him back. He said he did not love her anymore and reconciliation is not an option so he avoided her.
I have respected his decision but is eating me up inside. It's been two weeks and he has made no contact. We used to go to church together every other Sunday. I have gone out of my way to avoid him by attending at different times. Should I simply go this Sunday at the same time and risk running into him? I feel like I've been hiding and is getting uncomfortable. I don't think I did anything wrong but I keep punishing myself.
I initially thought if I gave him time and space maybe he'd come around and give it a fair chance. After two weeks, I don't think that is the case anymore but still have a slight hope. What would you do in my situation?