We have been talking a lot about how to deal with problems differently. Since he's been home, he is very rational. I'm just scared that if he comes back, he will be all stressed out again and we will just end up fighting. He is also not used to being away from home, which stresses him out. Is this normal for a 32 year old? When we argue about things, we tend to butt heads. He is very hard headed and maybe I am a little too. He keeps saying one of us has to give in, but I can't give in about something that I know is right. Or if I explain to him about something that I said that he took wrong, he still just hears what he thinks I meant. We are a lot the same, but come from two different backgrounds, I am very understandig about his. I'm just not sure sometime that he is of mine. He's used to things his way, can this change?