Do you think it will change when he finally gets a job that takes away the stress of being strapped financially? I guess my question is is it worth it to keep waiting? He recently asked me to move in with him next summer and I think that would both help in relieving financial stress and we would get to see each other more often. Recently tho, an old friend (Jeff) informed me of being very interested in having a relationship with me. His wife that he was in the middle of a divorce with passed away on Sept. 1 of this year. His daughter is 17 so it would be a little while before he would ever let her know that he is interested in someone else and that is ok. I just don't know who I should really be with. I know that Jeff would treat me like a queen, whereas Michael continues to be in love one moment and then it dies down again and distances himself from me. What do you think I should do?