What about the facet of the sister who cant live financially on her own.
My mother rather live closer to me (city activities) than rural life
However feels guility letting my sister to fend on her own??
How truly common is it - inlaw suites anyhow?
The reality is my sister (50) has never really developed lifeskills to care for herself like cooking since she has lived her entire life under my parents roof. She had developmental problems earlier and was shielded. Now as an older adult, laziness/stuboorn. Only has part time employment and simply cant be financially independent currently but wont leave the area because of her friends.
I can house my mother but not my sister.
Anyhow, suggestions are easier on emails than reality????