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Hi there, i have been with my boyfriend for over a year, i

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Hi there, i have been with my boyfriend for over a year, i believe i love him, the thing is.. i feel like i have to always second guess everything he does, and over analyze everything he does or says. not sure why i can't trust him. it's almost that i m trying to scare him away.. or i just want to hurt him before he hurts me.
Submitted: 7 years ago.
Category: Relationship
Expert:  Angela replied 7 years ago.
Hello,
Based on what you have written, it sounds like you are indeed trying to protect yourself from being hurt based upon your past experiences prior to being with your current boyfriend. This could be why you over analyze everything he does as well as not trusting him. Take sometime alone and think about what past experiences are contributing to your current behavior and deal with the past baggage so that you can enjoy your current relationship with your boyfriend completely.
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