i am sure there must be many reasons why people cheat. Yes he may be bi sexual, yes true it could have been my fault for not keeping him happy at home or even his own fault for not feeling able to turn to me for whatever reason. What upset me was the way you made him sound like a bit of a low life who had slept with a man, lied and seem like he was just cold hearted about the whole thing. Not every man that cheats does it because they are a bad person. You have to view the over all personality of the person not just the fact that he cheated and whilst i accept that on your part you dont know him, i felt that your implication was that hes just no good. Hes a good husband in alot of ways but obviously got underlying issues. I wondered why he has them. My issue was not that he cheated but why.