1−800−799−SAFE(7233) and they can give her the local phone number for the shelter in her area. If she calls have her do so when he is not at home and then erase the number from her phone, caller id, and from her redial button. Also, your daughter can call the phone number and speak to a crisis counselor and explain about the verbal abuse and having a previous incident of self harm which his verbal abuse contributed to and get more information about her options. She can also ask to speak to a legal advocate about her child custody concerns and possible options. Have her also inquire about support groups which she may be able to attend.