By couple counseling do you feel it is a must ? My wife explained all of it, in fact I asked all the questions I wanted of her and she answered truthfully. I have checked her phone records and when she said it ended it did. She states that she loves me and her family to much to go through with cheating, because she knows it will end our marriage and destroy the family.
She recognizes how wrong the behavior was and how she just enjoyed the flirting that was going on> My wife mentioned that when the guy stated "so you feel neglected ? I think its time to meet." Thats when it hit her how dangerous this behavior was and she wrote to him an apology for leading him on and reminding him that she was a mother and wife and happy to be so. When he requested that they continue texting she said absolutely not. "Whatever is going on here I cannot allow myself to fall for nor investigate what if with you in this manner. Do not call nor text me again" She showed me the message.
All of this leads me to believe that she made a mistake. The guy's phone is blocked from her cell and she proceeded to erase it from her contact list.
Are we ok ?