My daughter will not answer my phonecalls or send thank you notes for the gifts I send to the chidren. I would dearly love to sit down with her alone and talk. I dont think that her husband will let her. I set up a brunch at my h ouse to do this. The husband came and yelled and screamed at me and said he never wanted to see me again unless he had a tape recorder because I get things so mixed up. The truth is I tell the truth and Im not mixed up at all. I am well centered, bright and catch on quickly. I think to make matters worse that my daughter is brain washed. Me getting her alone is difficult because of the verbal abuser husband. My daughter doesnt even know she is brainwashed. Husband calls her 30 times a day. Bombardment. Then he takes her away to their home on the lake. Isolation. Two main brainwashing techniques.
Question: Should I write her??? Will the husband brainwash the grandchildren if I add fuel to his flames. The money flames.