I have already discussed all the issue with him and he knows I how I feel. However, he would not leave my house and I am also feel bad to kick him out. My feeling is probably close to a mother who has looser son. I feel like he is my family and it is hard to kick him out. I make enough money to support both of us, but I don't want to be responsible for both of us rest of our life. Am I being selfish? Sometime I think bout people give money to stranger for charity, so I should not feel so bad about supporting the person I love, but at the same time, I maybe able to meet my equal to build better life together if I am not with him. I don't know what to do.