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I have had the conversations with him, but his answers are always based on our somewhat rocky past...voicing his concern that we have had problems in the past and he seems to think that we are just now starting over. (We have been back together now, after a short one month break, for about 11 months.) He goes back and forth with the conversation about having children, and almost always says things like "I'm not saying that I don't ever want to ..." He just says that it's not something he is focused on right now.
I am afraid that I have made his life very comfortable, and I take very good care of him. If I was to give him a timeline on how long I am going to stick around, he would just get angry, but I think I secretly need to do that for myself. Do you think this is a good idea, and if so, are there things that I should be doing differently that might make him realize whether or not he wants to marry me? I know I sound like an idiot, but I don't feel comfortable talking to my loved ones about this.