IWe have talked about it and he's shared. He has expressed the things that he does not like about me. I have listened and I'm working on being more sensitive to them. I do try to keep things romantic and I am affectionate.
While I was going through a bad period, he also had set backs at work, financially, and decided to start on his MBA. He works full time and part time on the weekends. A lot of stress and pressure for both of us. We are different in many respects, however I believe that the differences are not "deal breakers" as they are compromisible and we both find more positive about each other than negative. We have talked about it.
I suggested the possibility of counseling so he could get to the bottom of what triggered his change of feelings towards me. He was not receptive. He says he's been hoping he can figure it out and then make a decision to continue or breakup. I am trapped at the moment because I can't afford to move out. I asked is he felt or thought he might want to keep trying or if he believed our relationship had run its course and we should move on ... I could not get a straight answer. Seems to me he's willing to let me go if I choose, although he says it will hurt. He seems indicisive. Can I do anything to help him figure it out?