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for anna: Just a follow up question since i did not have enough space for this all. Do you think it is possible for him to build a meaningful bond with my daughter? what would it take to do that?
Also, he has even called the police on me and has told lies to the police to make me seem like im someone that I am not. What caused him to want to go to therapy was we recently got into an argument in public, police called. i had left but returned to speak with the police. He had exaggerated things and lied saying i did things i did not do. The police said we both go home or both to jail. He was so upset with me he Requested to go to jail in order to get me arrested. I have a lot of resentment and anger towards him because i feel im ruingin my life trying to be with him. I want to try to make it work for my son, but even with the police being involved, could counseling help? He called the police also b/c i came over n rang his doorbell n he was mad at me. Now he is so sorry and wants it to work. is it possible he really loves me? or is this one big mess that doesn't look fixable?