Thanks for your answer. If you dont mind commenting on what I have to say now.. I understand exactly what you're saying, because It's how I'm feeling right now.. 5 years is a long time, he could atleast tell someone in his family about me, atleast then I would have some kind of reassurance. I know he loves me, but he has a funny way of showing it! I even cried to my mum after me and him had an argument and blurted out that there was this guy that was "a good friend of mine" and that hopefully one day i'd want to marry him. Our religion doesnt allow boys and girls to mingle and I still told my mother about it, maybe not the full truth, but my mom isn't stupid. What do you think of this? Is there anything I could say to him without him telling him "not to do his head in"?
Thanks for listening.