Hi steeler and thanks for using JustAnswer.com.
Picture youself in five years and imagine who you want to be with? a boyfriend in prison, an abusive boyfriend or someone who treats you well.
You cant be happy with your current boyfriend so cut him loose and move on.
I would also advise a few sessions with a counselor to try some brief treatment to help you explore your choices as go men.
You have all my best on this steeler, good luck
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