I am so sorry for the delay in getting you a response, we had very few relationship experts online yesterday and I was out of town so I do apologize for the delay in speaking with you. It sounds like you have been though some pretty rough times right now with your husband. If you could give me some additional information on the problems you are having we can talk this out and see if you can get some peace on this matter.
How long have you and your husband been married?
Any children? (Are they grown or in the home)
What kind of issues are you having with him right now?
How do you feel about him and the things he has done?
Have you ever tried relationship counselling, if so how did that go?
Any other information that will better help me to understand you, your husband and your marriage?